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Rules for the Wedding Day

 The wedding day is the culmination of months (or years) of planning, and it’s a day filled with love, joy, and celebration. However, with so many moving parts and emotions running high, it's essential to have some basic rules to ensure everything goes smoothly. These rules help everyone involved—bride, groom, family, guests, and vendors—know what’s expected of them and how to make the day as stress-free and enjoyable as possible.


For the Bride and Groom

 The wedding day is the culmination of months (or years) of planning, and it’s a day filled with love, joy, and celebration. However, with so many moving parts and emotions running high, it's essential to have some basic rules to ensure everything goes smoothly. These rules help everyone involved—bride, groom, family, guests, and vendors—know what’s expected of them and how to make the day as stress-free and enjoyable as possible.


Enjoy the Moment


Be Present: You’ve spent so much time planning for this day—now, it’s time to enjoy it. Focus on the love you share with your partner and take a few quiet moments together to soak in the day.


Let Go of Perfection: No wedding is without its minor hiccups. The most important thing is that you’re marrying your partner, not that every detail is perfect. Allow yourself to let go of small things and focus on the joy of the day.


Take Care of Each Other: Remember to check in with your partner throughout the day, whether it’s making sure you both have eaten or taking a breather together. This day is about both of you, so supporting each other is key.


Stay on Schedule


Respect the Timeline: Most weddings run on a tight schedule, from the ceremony to the reception events. Stick to the timeline as much as possible to avoid delays or inconveniencing guests and vendors.


Delegate Last-Minute Details: On your wedding day, you shouldn’t be worrying about logistics. Designate a trusted friend, family member, or wedding coordinator to handle any last-minute issues or details so you can focus on enjoying the day.

Thank Your Guests


Show Appreciation: Whether it’s through a speech, a thank-you card at each place setting, or a personal greeting, make sure you express gratitude to your guests for celebrating this special day with you. A simple “thank you for being here” can go a long way.

For the Bridal Party

Support the Couple


Be a Helping Hand: The wedding day is busy and can be overwhelming for the couple. As a member of the bridal party, your role is to assist in any way possible—whether it’s keeping the bride and groom calm, helping with their attire, or managing last-minute tasks.


Keep the Couple’s Needs First: Your job is to help the bride and groom have the best day possible. Stay flexible and ready to assist with whatever comes up.


Stay Positive


Be a Source of Positivity: Emotions can run high on the wedding day. As part of the bridal party, it’s important to stay calm, collected, and positive, even if something goes wrong. Your attitude will help keep the mood light and fun.


Stay Sober (Until the Reception)Moderation is Key: While it’s okay to celebrate and enjoy yourself, especially during the reception, the ceremony and pre-wedding preparations require focus and composure. Save the heavy celebrating for later in the day. 

For the Family

Respect the Couple’s Wishes


Support, Don’t Interfere: The wedding day is about the couple. Family members should be supportive and avoid imposing their own preferences or opinions on the day’s events.


Let the Couple Lead: This day belongs to the couple, and while family may have helped plan or contribute financially, it’s important to let the bride and groom make the final decisions.

Be Present and Engaged


Celebrate the Moment: This is a significant day for the entire family, so be sure to enjoy the moment and celebrate alongside the couple. Show them your love and excitement by being fully present and involved.


Offer Assistance When Needed: If something goes awry, step in to help only when asked or when it’s clear your assistance is needed. Avoid taking over or making decisions on behalf of the couple.

For the Guests

RSVP on Time


Respect Deadlines: Weddings are carefully planned events with limited seating and catering considerations. RSVP by the deadline, and if you can’t attend, inform the couple promptly so they can adjust accordingly.


No Last-Minute Additions: Do not bring an uninvited plus-one or children if they weren’t specifically invited. Respect the guest list as planned by the couple.


Be On Time (Or Early): Plan to arrive at least 15-30 minutes before the ceremony starts. Arriving late can disrupt the event and take away from the couple’s moment. If you are late, enter quietly and sit in the back without drawing attention to yourself.


Follow the Dress Code: Weddings often have a specific dress code, such as black-tie, cocktail, or casual. Respect the couple’s wishes by adhering to the dress code outlined on the invitation.


Avoid Wearing White: Unless explicitly stated, guests should avoid wearing white or anything too similar to the bride’s attire.


Limit Phone Use


Be Present: Unless it’s a fully digital wedding, keep phone use to a minimum during the ceremony. The couple has likely hired photographers and videographers, so let the professionals capture the moment. Put your phone on silent and enjoy the ceremony without distractions.


No Posting Before the Couple: If the couple prefers a social media-free ceremony, respect that. Even if they don’t have a formal policy, it’s polite to wait until they’ve shared photos before posting any on your own social media.


Be Courteous During the Reception


Be Respectful: Whether it’s during the toasts or the couple’s first dance, remain respectful and attentive. Avoid loud conversations or behavior that might take away from the couple’s special moments.


Enjoy the Celebration: After the formalities, it’s time to celebrate! Enjoy the music, food, and festivities, but be mindful of overindulging in alcohol or disruptive behavior. 

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